Columns Kochi is changing the way it dates, talks about sex and relationships September 26, 2026 gopalkumarthakur@gmail.com From Malayali dating apps to extramarital dating and three-hour vibrator deliveries, Kochi is finding new ways to talk about intimacy — even if much of it is still happening discreetly Related posts: Column by Devdutt Pattanaik | Kailasa in Cambodia Column by Devdutt Pattanaik | The betel leaf’s Indian makeover Being bisexual in India is still surprisingly complicated Sexual consent in India: we’ve learned the vocabulary, but what about the behaviour?